Wednesday 21 November 2012

I had a weird dream last night...

... mainly due to a blog post I read yesterday from a good friend that touched me. Me and my friend always say when someone is mean to us: just wait: - karma will hit him/her and my dream had the same message.
So today I thought we´d think about Karma and how we treat others. This first one is, for me, the worst possible way to live your life:


This one below gives comfort when you are hurt and sad and I think this one is a good one to read and then relax and know you don't have to do so much to the ones that hurt you:


This is what I believe in - What you put out into the world comes back to you!


How we choose to live our lives and act towards others will determine what kind of live we´ll have. So true!

Enjoy this day and lots of love and good karma to you all!

25 comments:

  1. A good karma is so important. A lot of persons hurts other persons. I hate it so. I'm a very sensitive person and when a person hurts me or do bad things to me, so I start to cry. I think it is important that we are nice to persons and hurts them not. we want also not that persons hurts us. so be nice to other! thats me opinion.

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  2. Yes! I like the one where karma takes care of revenge. And what u put out in the world comes back to you:) As wrong as this sounds: u don't have 2 hurt other people back; u get to watch them suffer for what they did.

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  3. So true, Anette, so true...

    I especially like these two:

    "There is a destiny that makes us brothers: none goes his way alone, all that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own." (Edwin Markham)

    "Every action of our lives touches on some chord that will vibrate in eternity."(Edwin Hubbel Chapin)

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  4. Yes,that is so true. that's why when my dad yells at me or hits me I dont do anything back... I know karma will come back and screw him over one day. And hopefully God will let me sit back and watch him be put through the pain he put me through for 16 years. ;-)

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  5. Nice thing to believe in... A lot of my friends do. I for myself don´t, but since I could never hurt anybody... I mean, sure, when I talk I get insulting very fast. But I always try not to hurt people with my ways - one of the biggest problems that I have, actually. In my situation, I can barely move or decide anything without hurting somebody -.- But I guess I will get along and the world will get along with me ^^
    By the way, I was having such a happy minute when I read your comment on HIM xD I love to hear that other people think they´re great, too.
    Have a nice day!
    Love, Betty

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  6. I had the strange dream! I dreamt about being raped. It was realy wierd!

    Also my boyfriend broke up with me but I actuallty don't care. I can go fangirling now!

    I do believe in karma too. I am also realy sensitive for allmost anything. I am sensitive for light and sounds but also with feelings.

    Yeah I love you!

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  7. That second one really does make me feel good. I hope that one day the people who do bad things to others will get what they deserve. Thanks for posting :)

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  8. Hello Anette :)
    I'm a little skeptical about karma. I think that some persons have not what they deserve. I had many times a evidence of it. A few times people hurts me, but I have not saw anyone who recived the same treating that I had. In the past I gave all I could for my friend. I sacrificed a lot for her. Now she almost does not talk to me. She hans not a valid reason to do like this. Some people said to me: "You will see, karma will do its job sooner or later." I have not seen any karma's job, so I go ahead on my road and slowly try to forget her. Is really difficult, because we were friends some years and we shared a lot of things and adventures. Just now I see how she is and when I think of her I'm sad. Maybe I must give a chance to the karma, but as I already said I'm so skeptical.
    Have a nice day :)
    Kisses

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  9. i have like the worst karma ever... i suspect i must have been a REALLY bad person in my past life 'cause every time i place one foot out of the line, even if it's in self defense, it just comes back ten times worst to me

    well, i guess it also proves that the people who hurt me will pay for it

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  10. Hi Anette,
    Like I said before. I believe in Karma and I have many problems in my life because of there people, but I don't want revenge or wish for anything to happen to them. I know that whatever they do will return to them one day. As your second one says, If you're lucky, God will let you watch. Never look for revenge, it finds it's own way.

    Sending love and light :-)

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  11. Actually, what we put out into the world comes back to us, but sometimes bad things happen with good people. We must try make good things ever,in spite of anything. Kisses, dear Anette.

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  12. I like the 2nd one about those who hurt you will eventually screw up and if you're lucky God will let you watch :-)

    Lots of love and good karma to you too Anette :-)

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  13. Kamelot already sang about it and I often keep in mind:" all you do in life comes back to you".

    This is what you can call karma... you're 15 and you'll start a special saving account. They promise you tonz of money at the end when saving stops. All these years you'll pay every month and the end is near. It's an official Dutch bank you're dealing with, one of the big ones. It's time for them to pay the money but they refuse. What once seemed a dream becomes a nightmare. There's a claim you've started but for the rest you have to live with it. Years go by, then it's november 20th 2012 and you want to buy something which is more expensive then usual. You check your bankaccount and almost get a heartattack. It's impossible you have so much money on your account. Pay, go home and check what's going on. The company finally paid some money because of the claim you've started. This is what happened to me yesterday. And although the feeling is such an incredible high I'm smart enough to put it apart and spend it when it's needed. On a normal saving account, I'm not that stupid... Thank you Karma!

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  14. I don't think I really expect anything back from the world if I do good, but I do realize the impact staying positive has. I merely like the fact that I'm trying to add as much positivity as possible. It comes back to me, in the fact that I might actually see the impact of it, but I'm not sure I care if something bad happens to bad people. I hope something good happens to them that makes them want to be good. ;) Of course, that "good" thing might be something "bad" to wake them up. hehe

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  15. This is so true Anette...

    I have loved the second one.The words writen there are true himself.I don't need to make bad to others,because the bad they do to others,will turn against someday.

    God is a blesser to persons who believe in his testaments,and the fair and friendly will watch them,screwing his own lifes.

    Amazing Post Nette.

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  16. Yes! This is how I like to live my life. :) Thinking like this can help me to be less mad at the people who have done me wrong in my life... But also, when bad things happen to me, I can think that I probably deserved it, and for me personally that's much easier than feeling sad for myself, because I don't want my bad deeds to go unpunished. But that's just how I think and how I deal with stress. :) I wish you lots of love and good karma! <3

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  17. Parukia: Hi! Yeah, it helps me too and make me easier to move on;=)

    Gabriel: You are so right;=) Amen to that! Sleep well!

    Harrawrson; I never expect anything back either but its good to know that being nice is better than being mean;=)

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  18. Dutchie Wow, what a great story!!! Congrats;=)

    Tom: hehe, I like that one the most too;=)

    Arthur; Yeah, unfortunately that does happen, but still I believe its better to be good than bad.

    Martin; I am the same. I move on, but believe karma will hit them one day or another. And it normally does.

    Carolina: Hi! That doesn't sound so nice and I don't believe its because you´ve been mean in a past life. I guess sometimes nice people do get hurt so much and its not fair, but I am sure karma will hit them who hurt you, some day.

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  19. DarkQueen; I believe karma doesn't have to be that she or he gets the same treatment you did, but that one day in their life they will end up getting hurt as you did, in one way or another.

    Courtney; Hi and yeah, I hope so too;=)

    Sabine; Oh, no! Thats horrible dreams you had! Here´s a dream interpretation of dreaming being raped:This can mean you are overcome by events, by other people dominating your, or by your own internal unwanted emotions. Rape in the dream can also show fear of sex, either thorough past rape, or from guilt about or fear of sex. The denial of sexual drive in a man can lead to dreams of rape.

    Betty; Hi! I always try to not be mean to others but of course I can end up saying something mean and so on in the spare of the moment, like in a fight. But I always regret it and say I am sorry and I can always make up and also forgive almost any harm done to me, cause I do not believe hate is a good way of living life. But I would never hurt someone with intention to do so and could never hit someone and so on and since I do believe in the whole "turn the other cheek around" thing I need some faith inside that the ones who have hurt me badly someday will understand what they did. And thats the karma I believe in and hope for in my life;=) Not that they suffer horrible things but maybe a little bit of a sting so they wake up and understand what they´ve done to others.

    Brianna; You know that its not ok for your dad to hit you, right? Here in Sweden its against the law and he could go to prison for it. I don't know how your country is with this, but please tell someone so he stops! Its never ok to hit your children! i get sad when I hear you have to deal with this and have dealt with this for so many years!!

    The lost seafarer: I like them both;=) So nice!

    Sarah; yeah, I am the same. I am very sensitive and emotional and feel a lot of empathy towards others so when someone lacks the ability to understand if they hurt me or someone else I can't understand it! If I see someone crying, even if I don't know the person, I want to comfort that person. To know many people can laugh at a crying person or even so, say really mean things to him/her while they are crying and are sad, is just for me, evilness. And it saddens me there are so many people out there like that;=(

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    1. If I c someone crying even if I don't like them, I feel bad and hope that they'll be okay. I can't go up 2 people I don't know though...I just feel...awkward...I wish I wasn't so socially awkward. But laughing at people in pain...is not cool...some people r so fucked up and heartless...but Karma's out to get them:) Then we'll c how funny it is when THEY r suffering...

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  20. Yea I know its not legal but unfortunately I would have no where to live. Otherwise i would tell someone... Im just scared to. :(

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  21. Oh,and im sorry for making you sad... Im just used to it by now... Maybe soon i'll see if i can leave. And I will let you know how that goes. Sleep well and sweet dreams to you.

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  22. Yes, also I still belive that is better do the good. In Brazil, a TV channel showed one novel that spoke about revenge, but some person thinked that it was "justice when the system failled". I talked whit my students about this and about novel mensage, and I was scared that many students of mine think that revenge is justice. I am doing a discussions at scholl to make change this opinion. But it is hard!
    Hugs, dear Anette.

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  23. I personally don't believe in karma. Things just happen. Life is not fair. Karma would make life fair, but it just isn't so. Life is suffering. It's hard to get through sometimes, but that's where our inner strength and willpower comes into play.

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  24. I believe in you all. I see the truth in each of your words. I can feel your pain, loss and suffering. I pray and hope life treats you all well. I hope you will see this message. But Anette I have followed your voice through Nightwish and I can't give up. Nightwish is my love it is like my dream band. And now that your gone my heart hurts a little. But I plan to never give up. I truly love your voice. It is beautiful. Your a strong singer. My name is Mars Wilson and you can email me at marsloveskurtcobain@gmail.com I hope to be any of your friends. I wish to help you in anyway I can. Including Anette's fans. Thank you all for living and being just who you are.
    -Mars Wilson

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